i guess this is why i'm a controversial figure just by existing
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woman existing outside the kitchen is already political, the bar is that low
People existing is already political.
Politics is about how we want to live together. Non political means the status quo is fine and nobody should change it for the better.
i agree, everything is political. not in a joking/sarcastic way. but everything is political. me existing is political. but I’m not sure a femcel forum is the ideal place for this conversation.
what?
There’s a frequent poster over in the lemmyshitpost comm who’s been catching backlash for hornyposting, and she posted this image which I thought was darkly funny. I thought other horny femmes (and embies and whomever) might appreciate the sentiment. Maybe it’s just me, but I like the idea that my being a thirsty pan isn’t pathetic, just political.
I’m honestly sad about this. Like, men can make horny jokes in any space that allows horny jokes, but heaven forbid femmes do the same. There is some bullshit going on outside of my usual comms and it’s frustrating.
Femmes making horny jokes is my favorite thing honestly. Sex was always a special interest of mine so it made me sad to feel I couldn’t share that with women without coming off as a creep (pre-transition at least). Fellow femmes horny posting makes me feel welcome and all warm and fuzzy inside, like I’m finally with my people.
I feel that too , I am a guy and I would love to be able to do horny jokes with woman , but somehow a lot of people shame them for that . :(
I think part of what’s confusing is the grammar - am I supposed to read it as
“women who are perverts” <- this is deeply political
or is it a typo and it should be “women who are perverts are deeply political”?
either way, yeah - women and sexuality are both deeply political, duh
Wait, I’m out of the loop, what’s the backlash?
The user posts PG-13 memes that imply that she’s horny, and some comments push back; some go as far as saying she shouldn’t be posting them.
I see people using the word “political” to refer to things that provoke discussions and/or disagreements (not sure if that’s the case here). Wouldn’t “controversial” be a better word for that use?
As far as I understand, political means being involved in public affairs of some kind, like working in politics, doing activism, etc.
I’m not a native English speaker, so correct me if I’m wrong.
Yes, here in the USA “political” can refer to all the things you mentioned, as well as being a synonym for “controversial”. But its meaning has been stretched and twisted here.
For example, there’s a whole line of discourse about what constitutes “a political act”, i.e. something that contributes to advocacy: you may have heard someone say “love is a political act” or “trans joy is a political act”. And sometimes “political act” is just shortened to “political”.
And disingenuous right-wing grifters have adopted the word to refer to any agenda the disagree with, and they intend it as derogatory. It’s a loaded word, now.
Why is it that the bad things are always just “status quo” but when I want good things it’s always “political”?
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Nah, those who can’t seem to understand women can be perverts too are the controversial ones. You’re good.
Women are the biggest pervs, lol, have you seen what they read? 😅 Men are usually more simple in their desires, but they’re just always running in the background, pushing us to seek variety.
Eh idk. While I’d love for that to be the case (and it ought to be) people criticizing women for sexualizing themselves still do not face the same kind of social shaming as the women engaging in consensual sexual behaviour.
As a perverted woman myself, there is more pressure on women to be obsequious, modest, and quiet about our sexuality by the majority of society. That being said, it’s a lot better than it used to be regarding female sexual empowerment, but society still has trouble grasping the idea that a woman might want to be sexualized on her terms, thus it is stil pretty political.
So uh…what are some of your perversions?
Asking for a science friend.
At the risk of being found out by someone who knows me, all I’m gonna tell you is I’m ✨️depraved✨️
That’s all u get
Lol. Well that’s great!
The only thing better than having a perverted girlfriend is having a pervert for a wife.
Mostly because of my selfish perverted wife who won’t share me. But also because I have only enough room in my head for one romantic partner at a time.
Women who are perverts are my tribe, the nastier the better.
LETS GOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!
Please don’t stop, its a nice break between all the actual political posts. I appreciate your posts even if I can’t relate to them at all 😭
The only kind of politics I like in my shitpost comm
I’ve never met a perverted woman, personally. I’m sure they must exist, though.
They exist. I have dated/met a few. One I was dating was convinced that every person had some sort of kink and she was looking for all of them. Really fun for a few months.
Nothing wrong with a person comfortable with themselves.
Go to a bookstore, you’ll find several
Librarians are next level freaks. I will not be taking questions.
Or go to Europe. The stories I could tell…
I dated a woman who wanted to have a three way with me and another woman within a week of meeting me.
they exist.
(You may want to check out !femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone. It’s quite the haven of femme hornyposting.)
https://goodreads.com/book/show/49682914.The_Subtle_Art_of_Not_Giving_a_Fuck
there are so many things in the world those people could lash out about, instead of trying to bully someone who’s making them salty because reasons. tell haters to go fuck themselves and go on about your day
I really want a good way to vocalize this to the people who think the “Pro-Woman” crowd means inherently being “Anti-Pervert”. Everything is always one or the other to these people. Meanwhile the LGBT world, as well as the furry world, is super pro-perversion.
Thus we have the worst, stupidest, loosest definition of the word “woke”, that these people live by.